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Valentines Day to April 18th

@Bobbinyc, I hope it's ok for me to plagerize your Christmas to Valentine's Day Topic Starter but it was absolutely perfect!!!

 

Welcome all Challengers!  What an amazing group we have!

Let's all continue together to take off the excess pounds and keep getting healthier.

This challenge will begin on Valentine's Day and finish on (American) Tax Day - 18 April 2017.   (Really!  It's the 18th this Year, not the 15th!)

 

All you need to join this challenge is to post your stats regarding your weight, and check in weekly or as often as you'd like. We are a great support group and enjoy keeping up with each other and being there for our ups and downs.  Generally we have found that the more we check in and offer support, tips, info,  and ideas to others, the more we get for ourselves.

 

We list our weight, as well as any other goals we might have related to being healthy (such as increase water, more active minutes, etc).  Developing good health habits is primary.

 

 

A little rundown of terminology for anyone who is new.

 

USW- Ultimate Starting Weight

CSW- Current Starting Weight (for this challenge)

GW- Goal Weight   (for Feb 14)

UGW- Ultimate Goal Weight   (what your healthy target weight is)

PW- Previous Weight

CW- Current Weight

MFP- My Fitness Pal

 

List as much info as you like.  Some people include age, gender, height....whatever seems relevant to you.

 

We keep it as serious or light as we feel, but we always keep it focused on being as healthy as possible, while we support each other kindly.  We can do this together!!

Saint Helens, Oregon; 5'2", 74, FitBit Charge 6 (Retired FitBit Charge 2
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@_Lilac_ I agree. I am blessed with a supportive family. I put my new treadmill through a good test this evening. 45 minutes at one time, then 2 hours later, another 40 minutes. I'm at 17,400 steps today! My personal best was 15, 069, and my goal is 12,000. Hopefully, this treadmill will help me meet and increase my goal. 🙂 

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@GettingfitinSC, your husband is utterly fabulous! What a fantastic present—though just as good was the note saying he was proud of you! Heart And yes @_Lilac_, I do wish my wife was that supportive, but I have you guys (and a full gym downstairs :)).

 

@BLLingg, I'm so sorry you and I were in the same boat this weekend. Cravings are horrible terrible, yes? I'm back on track today, thank goodness! Let's all take a breath and go back to doing it the way we know we can. Yay us!

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USW= 235 (Christmas 2016)

CSW= 224.3 (Valentine's Day 2016)

PW=218.9

CW= 216.9 (-2.0 lbs this week)

GW= 210

UGW= 125

38/F/5'0"

 

Very happy with the loss this week. I'm usually under a 2 lb loss, so losing 2 lbs in one week is great for me. 🙂 I'm hoping I can keep it up to meet my goal. April 18 seemed so far away at Valentine's, but it feels very close now. 

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...aaaaaaaaaaand my calves are STILL killing me.  300 floors in a day might have been too much for these old legs.  They didn't hurt on Sunday, but yesterday they were stiff and sore and TODAY the delayed onset muscle soreness is in beast mode.  It's gonna hurt to get my calories burned goal today.  😞 Oy vey!

Sunny - 45 - F - Virginia - Charge 2
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@GettingfitinSC WOO HOO!  Congrats on two pounds in a week!  I love it when my body cooperates.  🙂  Enjoy that treadmill!

Sunny - 45 - F - Virginia - Charge 2
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@_Lilac_  I'm a day late but responding to people pushing food, one piece of candy etc.  I find it repulsive.  Yep, it's a strong word.  I've seen people encourage an alcoholic fresh out of rehab to have just one beer with the same "oh it's just one, it won't hurt" or push candy on a diabetic.  I don't get it.  You never know someone's struggles or medical conditions or beliefs.  I have been known to say with a smile,"gosh, you sound like a drug pusher"   I've heard people say "you're no fun" because someone won't have dessert or a drink or even eat meat.

Really?  It is so disrespectful. We each have to figure out what works best for us.  And that means respecting someone else figuring it out for themselves too.

 

The activity that seems impossible today, will soon be your warm-up
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@GettingfitinSC  Congrats on the new treadmill.  Your having such a supportive husband says a lot about both of you.  Great job with the steps!  

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I woke up to go to the pool for aquafit class. The water exercise hurt my knee pretty badly. I've discovered it's shockingly worse if my knee is bent. I left halfway through the class and went into the therapy pool. The warmer water was soothing. When I mentioned to my mom that I should call the doctor, she grumbled that I've rested my knee for only a day and I'm still moving around too much. Ugh. So, I'll take the upcoming storm as a sign to completely stay sedentary for a few days. I'll think up things to do while on my butt. Funny how EASY it used to be. Didn't have to think about it, it was just my normal life to spend the entire day on my rear end. 

@Bobbinyc How is the weather? I just heard they've reduced the expected accumulation for NYC to 8 inches. I hope you are keeping warm and have everything you need on hand.

Mom brought me eggs! Since my epilepsy started at 41 yrs old, it is absolutely necessary for me to have eggs at all times. I began to crave them. There must be something in eggs that helps my brain. I was down to 3 eggs and a storm coming! I just discovered my milk has turned sour but that's because I don't use it much, so if I don't have milk during the storm, that's not really an issue. I have coffee cream in case I need something like that. Otherwise, I am all set. 

Ok, I'm sure you can tell I'm bored. blah blah. I'll go do some stuff. My PC is needing a good cleaning. It's shutting down when trying to run a game. I'll clean that, maybe doing some writing, more hats. I'll try to keep whining on here to a minimum!

 

Atlantic coast of Canada, 52 F, Fitbit Inspire HR.
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@RachelShrinks  I like your attitude. We do get off track at times for all kinds of reasons.  For me the goal is to see if I can learn something (ok, it's not smart to walk down the cookie aisle while hungry, duh!), not be critical or harsh at all, to get past it, to not get too far off track, and to get back on as fast as possible.  I like what you said "doing it the way we know we can"

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@_Lilac_ So sorry about your knee.  The storm here was no big deal- thanks for asking.  At least not to me.  It just stopped. But it wasn't a pretty snow.  I had been hoping to get out and do some photography.  I couldn't do any last winter because of my foot surgery and the winter before that I had the achilles tendon/plantar fascia thing.  I was so looking forward to photographing my favorite trees in the snow.  But, it is mostly icy rain.  The accumulation isn't that high but it will be a bear to shovel - very  heavy and icy.  The trees have ice on them, not the pretty snow.  

It's so sad to me that everything had started blooming because the weather was so crazy warm and birds had been looking for nesting areas.  Now with this, the flowers and buds are frozen and the birds are struggling.  I put out a lot of bird food - not sure how much good that will do.

 

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I appreciate the support and advice I got.  I still feel overwhelmed about starting once again but I am determined to do it smarter, not fast this time.  I took the advice of @Bobbinyc and @A_Lurker and I made a list of all the reasons I want to lose weight like being healthy and getting off meds and being there for my kids.  I also took @A_Lurker's advice and wrote down everything I ate today.  Both were ideas I hadn't thought of.  

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@terryrunning I've dieted off and on for years also, including counting calories, Weight Watchers, Atkins, pills, and others. I would lose 10-15 lbs, but that diet couldn't stay my lifestyle forever, because I hated how I was eating so I gained the weight back. I made exercise plans to work out for 30+ min, 5 times a week, but going from completely sedentary to 30 min of exercise at one time was next to impossible for me. I don't think I ever stuck with an exercise plan for more than 1 week. I never hit that point where people said the exercise gave you energy. It didn't for me.

 

I finally reached 235 lbs this past Christmas, which at 5'0" made my BMI a 46. I received a fitbit for Christmas and walking even 5000 steps was difficult. I slowly started walking a little more each day, and 8000 steps became my goal for the first month. While it was work to get and increase my steps, I finally reached that point where walking gives me more energy throughout the day. Then, I went to 10,000, which was a good bit of work, but a few 10-15 min walks during the day wasn't too difficult for me. I'm at 12,000 steps now, and with a new treadmill, I hope to increase my step goal again in a week or two. I can walk 30-45 min at one time, several times a day. I have more energy throughout the day, both at home and at work. I'm a wife, mother, and teacher, and I find myself getting more cleaning and projects finished at home, instead of just sitting and watching tv. I play with my 2 year old more actively. I'm walking around the classroom at work more and not just perching on my stool.

 

I still have days where I'm tired and don't feel like doing anything. Last weekend, I had less than 4000 steps for Sat and Sun combined. 😞 But...Monday, I got 17,000 and yesterday, I had 14,000 steps. 🙂 As of this morning, I've lost 19.1 lbs and my BMI has dropped to 42. I still eat unhealty food (we ate pizza last night,) but my portions are more controlled. I count my calories, even when I go over, and most days, I make healthier choices. I drink almost only water, although I still have a cup of coffee with cream/sugar every other day or so. I expect to keep increasing the amount of activity each day and improving my healthy choices.

 

Wow, didn't expect to write that much, but I just wanted to say that it's doable. Start with the small changes of walking a little more throughout the day and tracking your calories. You can write it down or use FitBit or MyFitnessPal.com, which I like better because it has more food items already programmed in and they sync together. Liquid calories are a fairly easy place to start. I cut out sodas and juice, and that cut a lot of calories out of my day. 

 

Sorry for rambling on... hope you have a great day and a great start to a new lifestyle!

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@GettingfitinSC  Thanks for sharing your story.  I am very very impatient with myself.  I want to do it all at once but all of my habits are just terrible, and have been my whole life.  You are a great model for one step at a time.  You had to be very determined.  I don't know if I can keep my focus going for that long.

 

This forum is very inspiring and gives me hope.  I have to stop getting overwhelmed and just start with something.

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I just realized I had begun posting in another forum and since I read this one a lot, I accidentally wrote in here.  I guess I just like it here.  You are so supportive and kind.

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@terryrunning  Since you had described yourself as impulsive, self-indulgent, unable to plan ahead, stressed, lacking in confidence and unmotivated and yet you are a mom and wife.  I want to ask one thing.  What is the most difficult thing you have ever accomplished?

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@Bobbinyc  I did describe myself in those ways and more.  You left out ditzy and easily overwhelmed.  But when you put it in writing it's different than when I say it all the time.  It's kind of shocking to see.  

I was about to say I  never accomplished anything hard to do but there has been something.  

One of my children was very ill and needed surgeries, and the prognosis was awful.  The whole thing was just terrible, hearing that about your child and seeing your child in pain.  I was on top of every detail.  I found the best doctors and made sure everyone, drs nurses even aids did everything possible for my child.  I tracked everything to make sure no one made mistakes.  Despite all the pain and awful stuff, I made my son laugh every day.  That was a promise I made to him and myself.   I even argued with a doctor once and then had to argue with the head doctor which my whole family was mad at me for, but my instincts told me they were wrong.  Turns out I was right.  My husband couldn't bear seeing him like that and rarely went to the hospital, so we argued a lot too.

My son is healthy now and living a normal life.  When he is annoying as any pre-teen, I just laugh and feel grateful.  I know the medical people did most of the work, but I honestly give myself a lot of credit for getting us through that in the best way possible.

I also took care of my mother before she died.

I guess I can do some hard things.

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@terryrunning  You didn't just do a hard thing.  You did the hardest thing there is.  Taking care of your child through such illness is terrifying, heart wrenching. I was crying just reading about it.  And you did it by being completely present, tracking every detail, looking for resources, speaking up, demanding the best treatment, and giving in a loving way so your son could still laugh and be close to you.  You did not get ditzy or overwhelmed or lose focus, or give in to your stress. You didn't think about whether you were tired or having a bad day.  You were a force to be reckoned with.  And your  son knows it.  And felt your love through his whole awful ordeal.  

If you can do that in such a powerful way, you are very far from finding the limits of what else you can do.

Can you do that for yourself?  Does it only have to be for others, or do you deserve great care too?

The way you criticize yourself, all those awful names you call yourself, are all lies.  I am glad you were shocked to see it in writing.  Because it is not who you are.  Maybe it's time to let that stuff go.

 

 

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There is a month +3 days til the end of the challenge and I'm worrying a bit whether I'll meet the goal I set for myself. I calculate 2lb/week to do my goals but I've been on a 1.5lb loss. However, since I slowed down my activity a bit the last week, I've dropped, so maybe I was doing too much for the amount of calories I was consuming. It's entirely possible. But I have 12 lb to lose in the next month. That's pushing it. Oh well, carry on and get as close as I can!

I am resting today. My knee is a bit better so I'm keeping a low profile. I'll treat it super well today. I was planning to do laundry but I'll avoid the steps for another day. 

 

@Bobbinyc  What a pitiful storm! They hyped it up so much that it was almost disappointing. Haha. You are right...the snow was not pretty. It's extremely wet and heavy. I could feel my shovel bending as I made a path for the dogs off the deck. We got half what was expected and it's already melting off, which is unusual for us. We still have all the rock-hard solid snowbanks from the last few storms and that will be around til mid-April. I once ran a contest at work. We had a courtyard with a lot of that frozen snow that had fallen since November. It just doesn't go away. The contest was for the employees to pick a date when the stuff would be completely melted off in the courtyard at the building. The winner had chosen April 17. And we always have a few inches of snow around my mom's birthday at the end of April. Our season is long! 

Anyway, off to make lunch and find more stuff to do on my backside. Have a good Wednesday everyone. Do some steps for me, some stairs for me, and if you are in the neighbourhood you can come do some laundry for me. Haha.

Atlantic coast of Canada, 52 F, Fitbit Inspire HR.
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@_Lilac_ Pitiful is a good word for this hyped up storm.  Seems the weather report creates drama  and is more for entertainment purposes. It is only accurate about half the time.  Sometimes I want to shout to the tv "just look out the window".   This time of year, it will be gone soon.  My new neighbors were going to install a heated driveway (very expensive).  Hello - climate change.  Milleninals!    

 

I'm glad you are nursing your knee back to health.  I spent much of my life with the "ignore it and it will go away" philosophy.  I do not recommend it.  Made things worse every time.  There is a time for powering through and a time for being gentle.

 

When I was laid up for a few months, I discovered that you can take courses in almost anything online, and almost all is free - crafts, languages, hobbies, health.  Pretty amazing.  I bet you can find all kinds of ways to not be bored.

 

 

 

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Well this has been beyond a busy/crazy/hectic week for me. I have tried to check in from time to time to catch up on reading posts, but haven't got to post anything. So as far as weight goes, I am disappointed but at the same time, happy I didn't gain. I have been trying to get my steps in and most days I do, but food choices were not good this past week so I was nervous I would gain. I am off again on my weekly weigh in schedule.. HOPEFULLY I will get back on schedule for next week. Work has been crazy this week and I haven't been where I am normally... So I am hoping come next week all will be back to normal. I am more than ready to get some type of routine going again. I am not gonna lie, I have been disappointed that I just can not get my MoJo back. I did so good for so long and now it seems like I just keep giving in to things I really know I should not. I HAVE TO TAKE CONTROL BACK! I really need to MAKE a point to get on here every night at least once. I seem to do so much better when I am constantly reading all the positive post and sympathizing with the one's that is struggling. I hate for it to be me that is struggling.

 

MY stats
USW - 210.0 lbs April 25th 2016
02/14/17 - 167.2 lbs -  Starting this challenge weight

02/21/17 - 168.2 lbs - Gained 1 pound 

02/28/17 - 164.8 lbs - Lost 3.4 Pounds 

03/08/17 - 164.0 lbs - Lost 0.8 pound 

03/15/17 - 164.0 lbs - Stayed the same

03/21/17 -

03/28/17 -

04/04/17 -

04/11/17 -

04/18/17 -

Challenge Goal Weight 158.0

Rhonda - 46 - F - Kentucky - Charge HR
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