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Will one 'cheat day' ruin everything?

It's my birthday next weekend and my family have booked to eat at my favourite restaurant. They say that I should take the day off from counting calories & nutrition and just enjoy the meal, then cut back extra the next few days.
My question is- is it really damaging to splurge? I would love to enjoy my birthday meal without having to be trying to work out numbers of calories, grams of fat etc. (it isn't a chain restaurant so I couldn't find it online) but I kind of feel guilty if I let myself slack off?! Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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I would try to find something that fits in your new healthy eating lifestyle.  One cheat can lead to another and another.  To be healthy you need to make a lifestyle change, not be on a diet.  There are usually lots of healthy options at a restaurant. 

 

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If you have the fortitude to make it a one time only affair, then go for it.  Especially if you have been on track for a long time.  It is your bday after all.  One off blips on your overall plan don't derail your progress.  It's only when you make "splurging" an everyday thing that it becomes a problem.  

 

I am not saying go crazy with the menu.  But go ahead and reward yourself with something you normally would not eat.  Then get back to it the day after.

 

I found that in my case, on offs every so often not only help me with certain cravings, but it also keeps me mentally healthy.  At the end of the day, food is not the enemy, our ability to discern what amount is good for us is.


@Daisychain96 wrote:
It's my birthday next weekend and my family have booked to eat at my favourite restaurant. They say that I should take the day off from counting calories & nutrition and just enjoy the meal, then cut back extra the next few days.
My question is- is it really damaging to splurge? I would love to enjoy my birthday meal without having to be trying to work out numbers of calories, grams of fat etc. (it isn't a chain restaurant so I couldn't find it online) but I kind of feel guilty if I let myself slack off?! Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

 

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Depends on you. For me, cheat days are needed. Otherwise I would go crazy. You can still be fit and healthy and enjoy life.
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every restaurant now offers healthy options. so although you may not need to count and log, you may want to stay within your healthy eating rules. what better day to treat your body right than on your birthday. remember- your body does not want cake, pasta, bread, etc. it hates that stuff because it is so hard to digest. your brain loves that stuff - you need to decide who you want to feed that day: your body or your brain. Neither choice is wrong or right- you just need to be honest about it. then decide if it is really a one time thing. the brain is going to ask for it over and over again. will you keep feeding it or will you care for the body that is supporting you... whatever you decide- your birthday is about your family, friends, the love they have for you and a celebration of your life- it doesn't matter what you eat- have fun and happy birthday!

Elena | Pennsylvania

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A single meal isn’t going to ruin your diet. Or at least it shouldn’t need to. If it’s going to be lunch, have a slightly lighter breakfast and dinner than usual on that day. Also try to eat slightly less on the previous day and the next day. Look at it from the point of view of the weekly average. Let’s say you normally eat 2000 calories per day at maintenance. That’s 14,000 calories per week. Even if you eat a hefty 4000 calories on your birthday, you still have 10,000 calories to eat during the other six days: that’s 1667 calories per day (instead of the usual 2000). 333 calories isn’t that much. You can also increase your activity during the week: walk an extra 30 minutes every day during that week and you will have "earned" most of the extra calories of your birthday meal.  

Dominique | Finland

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Whatever works for you but I, personally, never take "cheat days". First off, I don't even think of overeating or eating a lot of processed garbage (most restaurant food) as exactly "cheats". To me, they are what they truly are, eating garbage for one day. I don't like intaking garbage fuel, not even for one day. I don't want my body burning pollution or coming out of homeostasis. It's just not worth it to me. Besides, once you get into the mentality of "its just one cheat day" or "this is only a one time thing", those opportunities occur more and more often. Think about it, there is ALWAYS an excuse in this country to stuff yourself uncontrollably. Its always someone's birthday, somewhere. Graduations, congratulations, weddings, anniversaries, accomplishments, good news, Fridays, etc. Its a never ending plethora of junk food.

I've gotten out of the mentality of "celebrating" with food for a while now. Foods sole purpose is to energize and nutrify your body. It should never be a source of entertainment especially when there are so many other things to entertain yourself with, like money, activities, gifts, trips or a even a simple walk in the park during twilight. When I pushed my plate away, an entire world opened in front of me that I haven't even noticed before.

Situations do come up. I recently was invited to attend an anniversary party and I did but I brought my own food, to share with others, and mostly ate that because I knew that was prepared properly. Other than my own food, I ate nuts, which were all over the place and thank goodness someone brought a raw veggie plate. I skipped the dipping sauce. When they served cake, I said no. Sometimes saying NO to others, is the most liberating thing you can do. The no was to help myself not to save face for others. At the end of the day when I struggling with massive health problems, everyone else was living their life and I was the one suffering. So whenever I can do something for myself, I do it.

When it was husband's birthday and my best friend wanted to bring a cake, I told her not to bother. Her visit was appreciated more than anything she can bring. So she kept the cake and brought herself instead. We went to the movies. No popcorn for me, coconut chips instead.

Basically, this is all a lifestyle change. I don't live my life around food anymore because my life is no longer empty.

But, if your just concerned with weight gain, no, you can't gain weight from one day of eating like there's no tomorrow. Weight gain happens from a consistant and persistant onslaught of high energy dense, polluting foods.
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Thanks everyone for your replies! I think I will carry on and go for the meal. The restaurant is a small, family run business that I know uses fresh ingredients, and I definitely won't be stuffing myself!! I only really meant is it okay to treat myself to a lasagne and glass of wine for my birthday and although people have mixed opinions I think it probably is fine in my case if I work extra hard the rest of the week.
Thanks for the birthday wishes as well! 🙂
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It's your birthday.  One day won't kill you.  It is a great opportunity to learn to make healthier decisions though.  Like order what you want, but ask for a to-go box with the meal and put half in the box to take home and enjoy the next day.  Or look over the menu and see if there are some healthier choices that you would like to try but never have because you got in a rut with your favorite.  Birthday's are great opportunities to try new things.  Trade off the saved portion of your meal to have dessert and share it with your companions.  I even factor into my meal appetizers and then stick to the amount that I planned to have.  Usually, I am planning it at the table on my phone as we are ordering.  Sometimes I have to google items to get a calorie count, but it's your birthday, you just do the best that you can and enjoy your meal.  Walk a little more the next day.  The most accurate count is really over the course of a week anyway.  That is what makes the best statement about your habits.  One day can reflect the effect of alcohol consumption or prepared meals on water intake, changes in activity because of circumstances, or any number of things.

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If The Rock can do it, so can you

 

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@Daisychain96 wrote:
It's my birthday next weekend and my family have booked to eat at my favourite restaurant. They say that I should take the day off from counting calories & nutrition and just enjoy the meal, then cut back extra the next few days.
My question is- is it really damaging to splurge? I would love to enjoy my birthday meal without having to be trying to work out numbers of calories, grams of fat etc. (it isn't a chain restaurant so I couldn't find it online) but I kind of feel guilty if I let myself slack off?! Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

The entire day will so limit to cheat hours(4).   

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I make healthy choices because I like healthy choices. I also automatically bring 1/2 of any restaraunt meal home. As soon as it arrives I just split it neatly and have 1/2 for the next day.

 

If I want dessert I get 1 or 2 for the table depending on how many people there are (1 for every 4 people) and share. Never eat more than a couple of bites, remember you are there to enjoy the event, not just food. 

Inga
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@TLSouza63 wrote:

The most accurate count is really over the course of a week anyway.


This is so very true. A single day doesn’t mean much, one way or the other. It’s the accumulation over time that matters.

Dominique | Finland

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as long as it is just 1 cheat day and you don't go crazy 🙂 just work harder the few days after to make up for it

 

for some people, a cheat day is needed so that it doesn't get all boring

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