Needing accountability friends

[SunsetRunner]

Hi everyone,

I've been scared to post this for basically forever because I am afraid of what people will say, but I am at the point where I do not know what else to do.

I have a dream of taking part in a bike race or ride at some point in the future...I used to be a runner, but that turned out to be not the best thing for my body, so I had to make a transition.  The biggest problem I'm having with this is that I have a very difficult time staying with programs...in real life, I am basically in this alone, so I am finding that when my mood sinks as it often does because I have an anxiety disorder, my motivation goes with it.

I get that motivation comes from within, but it's become pretty clear to me that I have no chance at maintaining it on my own.  My initial plan was to go to a training studio in my hometown, but my hours at work recently got cut to the point that this plan is effectively torpedoed; I can only afford to go there once a week.  It doesn't help that the trainers there don't seem to be on board with the reality that a home program needs to be part of the picture for me.

So I'm sticking my neck out and asking if anybody would be willing to help by being an accountability buddy; in particular someone who has done bike races before and has some ideas on what I should do to prep.

David

[oh_suzanney]

Hi David,

I feel for you. I also struggle with anxiety and depression and sometimes even getting out of bed is hard. Have you set a goal for yourself as far as a date that you want to do this? I think sometimes having a firm goal in mind can help with motivation.

I'm not a biker, but I have a goal of competing in a Warrior Dash type run next summer. So while our experiences and training may not be the same, I'd be happy to help you with accountability and motivation...

[SunsetRunner]

@oh_suzanneyNot yet...it's a bit complicated with me because I'm underweight too. 😞

But I would happy to help you see that Warrior Run type race come true for you!  I'll add you. 🙂

[emili]

hey there @SunsetRunner.. here is a link to pages and pages of folks looking for friends, motivators, accountability buddies and more. Browse through and see if any meet your need or if any just sound like they would be fun to get to know. Don't be shy and send requests.. find friends here