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Struggling to drop pounds. Any advice?

To start off with some background, I have always been a chubby kid. Even as a baby, I was born premie but quickly became a chunkster. 😛

 

My second year of collage I really got inspired to watch what I eat and excercise because I was prediabetic. After three months my levels for a diabetic became those of a normal person.

 

The only time I have ever been able to lose weight was when I could eat absolutly nothing because I had a bad gallbladder. I ate nothing but a few bites of boiled chicken a day for almost three months and only lost about 20lbs. After I had my gallbladder removed I quickly gained back the 20lbs and then some. Shortly after my surgery my doctor found several bumps on my thyroid. It has been about two years since. The bumps have not been tested because they seem to be shrinking with medicine.

 

Now I am engaged and really moviated. When I am not too sleepy from working my four part-time jobs, my fiance and I jog every other day and walk the days between jogging. I have been doing this for almost a month and havent lost a singe pound. I am also watching my calorie intake and I am usually -1000 net (burn 1000calories more than I eat). So now I am getting frustrated. Something has to give eventually right?

 

My meals are primarily two slim fast a day for breakfast and lunch and for dinner a salad with not dressing or add ons (just lettuce), and lean meat, and a small portion of a carb, usually a potato or slice of wheat bread. I do not drink soda but about 3-5 times a month (only when I have migraines). On days that I jog, I do eat a bit more so my body doesnt go into starvation mode.

 

What am I doing wrong?

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Are you even eating 1200 calories a day? Just curious because if you really are only eating 2 slim fast shakes and a salad with no dressing and only lean protein an a carb. You are seriously depriving yourself of calories and adequate nutrition. Are you logging what you are eating? Sometimes too low of a calorie intake puts your body in starvation mode. You can't lose weight the healthy way like that.

 

You need to find out what your BMR is and how much you burn, then you should only be having a 1000 deficit based on those numbers. If you excercise more that day and burn more calories, you need to compensate your body with more nutrition.

 

Example:  My BMR is around 2500 without any extra activity....I would need 1500 calories for a healthy deficit. Yesterday I burned 3100 calories total (600 at the gym) so I ate 2000 calories.

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Keep a journal, measure and weigh every bite.  double check calorie counts.  if you haven't lost after a month of journaling go see your doctor, ask to be referred to a nutritionist.  You might not be eating enough, but the way you are eating looks backwards to me.  If  I were going to have the carbs I would have them in the morning so I would have all day to burn them off.  i am not a nutritionist or an expert but i would suggest you eat a better breakfast, eggs, or egg beaters, whole wheat toast, or oatmeal and a yogurt and fruit,  you can keep your shake for lunch but have some real food along with it, some nuts, fruit, salad,  Dinner can be lean and green. 

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Yes, I keep my food very deatiled. What I listed is the basic of what I eat. If I can see that I can eat more because of exercise then I do. I never go more than -1000 calories. I can try to switch up the meal replacement shakes. I usually don't eat in the morning because im not hungry. I am a night owl so I am more hungry at night if that makes any sense. Thanks for the advice! 

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Have you tried AdvoCare?  AdvoCare has really helped me and my Husband to learn how to eat healthy and to make healthy choices.  One thing I learned is your body needs a certain amount of calories each day and AdvoCare has helped me figure out which foods my body needs to help fuel itself.  We've lost a combined total of 50 pounds so far.  

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Have you had a full blood plannel with your doctor that included hormone levels? If your hormones are out of balance it can cause you to gain/keep on weight no matter what else you do. I went through this myself recently and had no idea it could be such a problem. My advice would be to start there.

 

If you're up for a new diet, I suggest you stop dieting and start eating clean instead. Instead of counting calories, only eat "whole foods" and nothing that has been processed (like your slim fast shakes). Vetables, fruit, nuts --preferably local or ogranic, but focus on eating things as though you had picked them yourself. If you can go without eating meat for a while and then work it back in, but be very active in finding out where it comes from. Look for grass-fed meats, and we warry of "farm raised" fish. Avoid processed grains, most "wheat" and "whole grain" labels are completely misleading and truly none of it is good for you. Avoid plastic and cans, many artifical hormones seap into our food through the container, packaging, and processing.

 

If you're interested in more, let me know. I recently went through a life change (In preperation for my marriage :)) myself. I lost 30 lbs that would not come off no matter how much I worked out. Every one's body is different, and I'm a "all in" kind of person... so there is no telling what part of my story may be helpful to you. But I did some hormone replacement therapy, completely changed my eating habits, and am currently continuing to remove toxins from my life (I had my metal dental fillings removed, stop using deotarant with aluminum in it, stopped using antibacterial soap, etc.) I know for a fact--and from personal experience--that exercise and calorie counting is not a fix all solution for reaching/maintaining healthy weight.

 

Don't get frustrated when you're not losing weight. It takes time to make a real lasting change. Just keep on working towards your goal one day at a time. You will get there eventually as long as you don't give up.

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You mentioned the bumps on your thyroid.  Has your doctor said what impact that would have on your metabolism, and if there is a way to treat that?  I know the lumps are shrinking, so that sounds good, but I wonder if there is something going on with your thyroid that would make it a lot harder to lose weight.  Many times issues like that are easily treated.

 

So get your thyroid function tested, if you haven't already.  Your doctor will usually order a test for TSH and T4, but that doesn't always tell the whole story.  What you really need is a full thyroid panel so you can see that everything is there AND that it's doing what it's supposed to do.

 

Other than that, I agree with @Mel_S that eating real food might be a big help.  Have a couple of eggs for breakfast instead of the Slimfast shake, then maybe a salad for lunch with a little cheese or meat on it, and then some fish or meat with a vegetable for dinner.  It's really hard to get too many calories that way, but you're getting nutrients the way they're handled best by our bodies.

 

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It very well could be that your body is in starvation mode.  If you're not getting enough calories to keep you at a healthy deficit, your body will store fat.  I think you got some excellent advice from @Mel_S and @Raviv.  The best thing to do might be to sit down with a registered nutritionist who can do a full panel of bloodwork to make sure everything is as it should be.  Beyond that try to look for a sustainable program, something you can stick with and think of as a lifestyle change, not a diet.  Whole foods, fresh fruits and vegetables, eggs, nuts, lean cuts of meat. Check your insurance, many insurance plans will cover visits to a nutritionist, though I'm sure the co-pay varies from plan to plan.  As for your workouts, try to vary them.  If you're consistently doing the same fitness regimen your body will adapt.  Maybe alternate and bike some days instead of running or on the days you're walking instead of jogging do some strength training exercises instead.

 

The SlimFast shakes aren't really doing anything for you.  If you want a meal replacement shake, try to make one that has some substance.  

 

There's a post-workout shake I'll have in the mornings if I don't have time to prep a solid breakfast.

1 scoop vanilla protein powder

1 cup almond milk or fat-free (skim milk), whichever you prefer

1/2 banana

1 teaspon peanut butter

1 teaspon almond butter (I like to use both because the almond butter tames the peanut butter taste)

1 tablespoon uncooked oats

 

You can play around with it, or do something totally different, but there's so many ways to make a homemade meal replacement shake that actually has some substance and nutritional value. 

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Here is my two cents...I'm losing weight consistently at about 1.5-2lbs a week. I've done a lot of research from actual accredited sources, not buzz feed articles. There are a lots of myths that are very commonly held by a lot of people when it comes to weight loss and fitness. Things like "8 glasses of water" "starvation mode" "thyroid problems" etc. (Most thyroid issues related to weight happen because a person is overweight in the first place, not the other way around.) The thyroids tendency to be over active or underactive may assist in weight gain or loss but it does not cause it like some people believe. A thyroid condition may leave you feeling tired as energy is not converted efficiently but you can overcome this. Regardless even if such a condition exists (about 2% of women) you will still lose weight via calories in vs calories out. If you are genuinely worried about a hyperactive thyroid I would look for other signs such as dry hair, hair that falls out, and underactive bowl movements and consult with a doctor. I say that to say the chances of it are small and even if it exists you can still lose weight.

 

So that aside, to the meat of the problem. Your body does not lie to you. If you are at a calorie deficit of 1000 and you are maintaining weight, guess what, you aren't at a calorie deficit. You can always try to justify/argue/excuse a lack of weight loss, or you can seek results it is totally up to you. I'm talking consistent deficits too like over a period of 2+ weeks. Your body will naturally fluctuate weight due to things like water and sodium over the short term. There are 3500kcal in a pound of fat at 1000 calorie deficit a day you should expect to see 2lb of weight loss a week over several weeks. In your case you aren't seeing this so here are a few suggestions.

 

  1. Exercise more. Exercise is a great way to increase your calorie deficit and has a ton of other great benefits like a stronger heart and those who exercise are psychologically happier.

2. Don't use fitbit to count your calories. Fitbit is great for a lot of things, accurate calorie counting it is not. Find your BMR from several sources and make an average and compare it to your fitbit...in my case it was close to 60% higher on fitbit than anywhere else. Most places were saying 2200-2500 for me where fitbit was saying 3700-4200 I'm actual finding it is closer to 3000 after tracking my weight and calories but if I were simply going off the 4200 with a 1000 calorie deficit I'd still be at 3200 and be putting on weight. I suspect this might be the case...if you aren't seeing the numbers you should be SOMETHING is off. This is just logical, and the sooner you accept that the sooner you can make effective changes.

 

3.Don't lie to yourself. Track everything, and I mean everything. A lot of people have a tendency of 95% food tracking and this will add up over the long run. Like you may count the burger and fries you had but left out the 3 spoons of ketchup you had with your fries. That is extra calories that will sneak up on you if you ignore them so make sure you are actually tracking everything. Don't assume things are free...like lettuce has very few calories whereas a green apple has close to 100. Even though they may be similar in your mind the calorie intake isn't.

 

4.Overestimate your calories if you have to. For instance I love chicken wings which have between 50-75 calories each. I count them all at 75. It makes my life harder and I may be over counting a bit but I see results at the end of the week...basically what I'm saying is if you take the easy road you may just end up frustrating yourself. 

 

5. KISS. Keep it simple stupid. Weight loss is all about calories in vs calories out. Unless you are weight training, attempting to eat clean, or have some other goal just worry about calories in vs calories out for now. 100 calories of fat is the same as 100 calories of protein (well at lot of protein actually takes more calories to burn then fat does, but I'm talking net calories.) Don't get super hung up on what you are eating so much as how much. It’s ok if you want to eat a big plate of stir-fry for 800 calories or have a couple slices of pizza for the same you just need to know how it affects you. If you feel hungry after the pizza then I'd go with the stir fry...but if eating stir fry 18 days in a row is going to make you snap and fall of the horse you are WAY better off eating pizza if that’s what you want. Like I said, if your goal is weight loss just worry about calories in vs calories out, everything else is crap. 

 

6. Do some research. Find out what things are myths, don't assume anything you know is real. Like what people refer to as starvation mode is crap. The body doesn't go after muscle when it has fat stores. That makes no sense. When you have fuel in the tank of your car you don't start burning the seats to make the car run. Your body isn't this stupid. Granted if you don’t' exercise you will lose muscle mass...but no having large calorie deficits will not stop you from losing weight, or wreck your metabolism or all this other crap. Your body is like a machine and calories are the fuel. Say it takes 100 calories to move a large rock from one side of the field to the other. You don't magically only use 50 calories to move that same rock the same distance because of "starvation mode." Your body would actually be becoming much more efficient if that was the case. You could run a marathon and only have an apple if this was the case. It makes no sense don't buy into it. That being said you should balance your weight loss with both food and exercise. Too low of a calorie deficit will make you feel weak and will just hamper you in the long run.

 

7. Stay consistent. It is a lot better to have a 500 calorie a day deficit then 1000 one day and 0 the next. If you overdo it one day your next outing may not be a productive as you think. Make sure your goals are realistic and obtainable. You are trying to develop a lifestyle not go on a diet, so do things that you can do every day happily. It is better to lose weight half as fast and keep it off then it is to lose a bunch really quick and gain it all back. Remember that this is a journey and that you are DISCOVERING things. You may be discovering that right now you need to push yourself a bit harder to get the results you want. Are you up to it? If you are literally maintaining right now ANYTHING extra you do will put you in the right direction. That one soda you say no to that you would usually say yes to is now 150 calories you just earned and is actually a 300 calorie swing. Every time you say no to something you would have normally done it’s a swing and it worth double to you J. That extra 10 min you run is all bank. It’s money. Go for it. You are so close. It’s like you are stopping right at before the finish line if you are stuck in maintenance. Push a little more, take the stairs, park farther away and you’ll start to see results.

 

8. Have fun, and remember you got this. You are running a marathon, not a sprint. Do things that will help you over the long run. Find a friend to encourage you and make it enjoyable. Even if you don’t lose a single flipping pound start measuring yourself other ways. Are you running faster? Farther? Is the run easier? Do you feel better? Are you sleeping better? If you can run a mile like its nothing and do everything effortlessly who really cares about weight anyways? I mean I know we want to look good, but I’m saying sometimes we focus on the weight too much. You may be making a ton of progress in other areas and that is something you need to acknowledge. If you are hung up on weight spend a week tracking your run times to get your mind off it. Being depressed and dejected isn’t why you started this journey so don’t get too hung up. Focus on the good and the rest will come I promise. Anyways, this post went really, really long, but just know I’m cheering you on and hope you keep on your journey.

 

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Here is my two cents...I'm losing weight consistently at about 1.5-2lbs a week. I've done a lot of research from actual accredited sources, not buzz feed articles. There are a lots of myths that are very commonly held by a lot of people when it comes to weight loss and fitness. Things like "8 glasses of water" "starvation mode" "thyroid problems" etc. (Most thyroid issues related to weight happen because a person is overweight in the first place, not the other way around.) The thyroids tendency to be over active or underactive may assist in weight gain or loss but it does not cause it like some people believe. A thyroid condition may leave you feeling tired as energy is not converted efficiently but you can overcome this. Regardless even if such a condition exists (about 2% of women) you will still lose weight via calories in vs calories out. If you are genuinely worried about a hyperactive thyroid I would look for other signs such as dry hair, hair that falls out, and underactive bowl movements and consult with a doctor. I say that to say the chances of it are small and even if it exists you can still lose weight.

 


I would normally agree that thyroid issues are generally over diagnosed via WebMD or Google, but in this case she has been told by a medical professional that she has lumps on her thyroid.  So it's reasonable to look into as a potential metabolism problem that might be easily fixed.

 

Your thyroid rules your metabolism, so problems with it can drastically change your ability to lose weight, even while being very careful about cutting calories.

 


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Do some research. Find out what things are myths, don't assume anything you know is real. Like what people refer to as starvation mode is crap. The body doesn't go after muscle when it has fat stores. That makes no sense. When you have fuel in the tank of your car you don't start burning the seats to make the car run. Your body isn't this stupid. Granted if you don’t' exercise you will lose muscle mass...but no having large calorie deficits will not stop you from losing weight, or wreck your metabolism or all this other crap. Your body is like a machine and calories are the fuel. Say it takes 100 calories to move a large rock from one side of the field to the other. You don't magically only use 50 calories to move that same rock the same distance because of "starvation mode." Your body would actually be becoming much more efficient if that was the case. You could run a marathon and only have an apple if this was the case. It makes no sense don't buy into it. That being said you should balance your weight loss with both food and exercise. Too low of a calorie deficit will make you feel weak and will just hamper you in the long run.

 


So if going too low in calories makes you feel weak and hampers you in the long run, then why is "starvation mode" crap?

 

Your brain's #1 priority is self preservation.  If it gets signals that your caloric intake is really low for more than a short period of time, it will slow or shut down processes it doesn't prioritize.  So you will still have blood pumping and be able to stand, but everything will slow down.  Your thinking might be fuzzy, your muscles won't perform as well as usual, they won't rebuild much after a workout, and this all slows down caloric burn because that's how it works.

 

In your rock moving example, no it won't magically use 50 calories instead of 100 to move the rock.  It will just impair your ability to move the rock in the first place.

 

And the less excess fat you have, the more this happens.  Someone with 200 pounds of fat on their frame can generally cut calories a lot without too much negative impact.  Someone that is only a few pounds overweight will feel it a lot sooner and with a smaller caloric deficit.

 

There are a number of people here that have stalled out for a long time, then increased their caloric intake, only to find their bodies functioned better, and that allowed them to start losing weight again.

 

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"I would normally agree that thyroid issues are generally over diagnosed via WebMD or Google, but in this case she has been told by a medical professional that she has lumps on her thyroid.  So it's reasonable to look into as a potential metabolism problem that might be easily fixed.

 

Your thyroid rules your metabolism, so problems with it can drastically change your ability to lose weight, even while being very careful about cutting calories"

 

--Like I said, it is fairly uncommon and I said if you were concerned you should consult a doctor. It changes your ability in as much as it effects your conversions. A doctor would clearly give you better advice if this IS the case, but like I said, if there are no other signs chances are its something else. Also, I'm not saying it may not be harder for some people, what I'm saying is that even if you have a bigger hill to climb, it is climbable. 

 

"So if going too low in calories makes you feel weak and hampers you in the long run, then why is "starvation mode" crap?"

 

-- I'm saying it is a possibility. It is also possible that you could have a 1,500 calorie deficite and feel fantastic. The reason I brought this up is so she is not scared to do what it takes to see the results she wants because she is afraid of some mythical starvation mode that happens to people with very low body fat%. 

 

"Your brain's #1 priority is self preservation.  If it gets signals that your caloric intake is really low for more than a short period of time, it will slow or shut down processes it doesn't prioritize.  So you will still have blood pumping and be able to stand, but everything will slow down.  Your thinking might be fuzzy, your muscles won't perform as well as usual, they won't rebuild much after a workout, and this all slows down caloric burn because that's how it works.

 

In your rock moving example, no it won't magically use 50 calories instead of 100 to move the rock.  It will just impair your ability to move the rock in the first place.

 

And the less excess fat you have, the more this happens.  Someone with 200 pounds of fat on their frame can generally cut calories a lot without too much negative impact.  Someone that is only a few pounds overweight will feel it a lot sooner and with a smaller caloric deficit."

 

--What processes get shut down after eating fewer calories? Please source this. You are talking about all out lack of nutrients like the type of things that happen to your joints after not having protein for 21 days. We are talking reduced calories. Like I said several times, pay attention to your body and your energy levels and balance exercise vs intake accordingly. It may be the case she needs to eat all her food calories in a day and create a deficit via exercise, this however may not be the case.

 

-- Yes, you should be shooting for the same percentages not necessairly the same numbers as a larger person I 100% agree. 2% loss a week will look different for someone who is 200lbs then someone who is 150lbs. I'm bigger I can have a larger deficit then someone smaller then me my 2% may look like 1400 calories where theres may look like 700. 

 

"There are a number of people here that have stalled out for a long time, then increased their caloric intake, only to find their bodies functioned better, and that allowed them to start losing weight again."

 

-- Again here, I don't disagree and I addressed this. I said it was better to be slow and steady so you don't bag yourself. Some people lose weight inefficiently by trying to do it all in one day opposed to spread out over a week and it will effect your energy levels along with your psychological motivations. 

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Thank you everyone! I've evjoyed reading all of your responses and it has kept my moviation up. Since my last post I have started regular weight training and swaping the slim fast shakes for fresh veggies. Kale is my favorite, you can do everything with kale. If I do not see any results in a few weeks, I will start my vegan diet. Being a vegan has helped me in the past. Thank you so so much for the posts and encouragement. 🙂

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Cant wait to try the homemade shake. Thanks! 

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Hi,  have you had your thyroid function checked?  You might be hypo.  

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I've been working with a nutritionist and health nurse through my doctor's office. I find that I just lose wieght slowly. Much more slowly now that I am in my 40s than in my 20s. So just don't give up! You will find the method that works for you. 

One of the things my doctor told me at my last check up was that there have been some studies about food tracking (which definitely helps us lose weight), but they found that focusing on getting enough fibre was a key indicator and people who just tracked fibre were just as successful. This is just a preliminary study, so we will see if it holds up. But I kept tracking all my food and just made sure that my fibre was good every day and ate a high fibre breakfast with raspberries, yogurt, and bran. And ate a salad and lots of veg everyday and I am finally seeing results. I also aim for 10,000 steps a day. This may not be the solution for you, but try making veggies and fibre the "star" of you meals and see if that helps. 

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I have had my thyroid tested. All of my tests are normal except for the bumps. One is 1.2cm and the second is almost 2.5 cm long. I am getting a biopsy in October so hopefully that will give me some insight.
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Hello m,

 

was 239 in feb 2015 today am 207. on a 1900 cal per day

 

good breakfast everyday works, i never did before. it i,s hard but im in a groove now, oatmeal and fruit.

 

when I sleep properly it is easier to lose.

 

drink proper amount of water for your size.

 

try it, u can do it

 

kind regards,

alefCat Happy

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Well, first off, I think you just are beautiful!  You don't say how much you weigh.  Now, there are some amazing people here that can give you a ton of reasons why, all I can tell you is this:

 

If you weigh over 200 lbs, you won't lose weight at 1000 calories a day.  I don't understand all the medical or biological reasons really, but you just won't.  At over 200 you can eat 1800 and lose 1-2 pounds a week rather easily.  When you restrict your calories too much, you just don't lose, and I think it's because eventually, three days, five days, you're going to grab a cheeseburger......you're not going to want to walk......and when you do walk, your body just doesn't respond.

 

Try eating several meals a day, focus on some healthy proteins, and complex carbs (veggies and whole grains!).  Now don't eat huge each time, but realistically 300 cals for breakfast, 150-200 for all three snacks, 300 for lunch and 400ish for dinner.  That's 1600 roughly. 

 

Eating this way somehow improves your metabolism.  It isn't magic, it isn't quick, but it works.  Secondly, look at what you do daily, in timeframes.  Most of my walking is in the morning.  I taper off through the day, so depending on my output, I may skip the after dinner snack, or eat a bigger breakfast and a smaller dinner. 

 

I mean you wouldn't expect your car to run without gas, or as well with cheaper gas, or not at all with say kool aid.  This is how I try to view food now.  What is my body getting out of it?  Now I typed so much I'm not sure I answered the question.  But I did send a friend request!

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Nice work!

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Meow- good luck with the biopsy. Why the long wait? Every woman i know is on thyroid meds. Mine took forever to diagnose and get treated. I hope you are getting a second opinion from a throid specialist, not just any endocrinologist. I was told the problem is common due to iodine no longer being put in flour and most salts, and because of all the chemicals in our food interfering with hormone functions, etc.
Either way, do as much as you can to take good care of yourself - eating healthy, being active, being assertive about medical care. Good luck
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