Are you trying listening to your body?
No desire / thoughts for food (to eat yet),.. being satisfied.. not hungry, not needing more in the moment.
When getting the desire for food (being hungry),.. tune into your body, what is it asking for? Is it screaming for 'I want a salad', a slice of pizza (even a whole pizza), if not really hungry, your body can be satisfied with for example a coffee.. not being hungry 'till dinner..
When having eaten little all day, your body can still be satisfied with food / nutritients from the day(s) before.. when eating base portions on hunger (listen to what your body wants, the potatoes may not look appealing to eat, but the vegetables do, and some meat, a egg.. anything your body desires).
When eating not just to eat, but what our bodies are truly craving for when being hungry, we eat automatically less and only when eating when our bodies need nourishment until satisfied (not stuffed).
For example, when eating just to eat, and there's some cake on the table which you don't fancy to eat, but actually truly wanting a cup of coffee, when eating the cake first, your body still will not be satisfied, saying 'something's missing', and having the cup of coffee anyway. That piece of cake was not really needed because it didn't nourish your body 'cause of eating to eat, and not having what your body truly desires.
When eating, have anything your body desires (everything tastes more delicious to), notice your body telling when it's having enough and let it guide if it needs some more (for example at dinner), not being satisfied yet (desiring having more vegetables, may be a little piece of meat more, there can be some left overs on the plate when not needing more..), your body will guide when it needs nourishment, what it wants, how much it wants.. telling when having enough.
The total calories eaten (by listening to your body) can be perfectly lots less than the food plan tells you to have because of having all nutritients it needs in the moment.
When not being hungry, feeling satisfied (not stuffed). Trust your body and honor not having more, don't force feed your wonderful body, even if there's hundreds of calories left to eat..
Your body when eating to nourish, eating nutritient rich food most of the time, while having anything else in moderation (also have the nutritient rich foods in moderation, when your body isn't hungry and not wanting for example a banana in the moment, it's not a license to eat all of the nutrient rich foods unlimited) that can lead to also overeating over time.
Have everything with care, let your wonderful body be your guide. It wants to revert back to a healthy weight range when eating only to nourish, stop when feeling satisfied (not stuffed), not eating out of boredom / loneliness.. based on genes, food choices, activity and trying being in tune with your body needs when it's asking for nourishment.
When logging food, it's to see habits, change where desired. The plan can tell to have 1000 calories to have in the moment but not having a appetite yet, not being hungry yet.. your body knows the best. Try trusting your wonderful body.
When being sick, our bodies may not desire food at all (when it's not focusing on digestion, it's capable to focus all energy on healing), recognize if being sick, to allow having just a little bit of healthy nutritient foods, watch carefully when your appetite / hunger naturally returns or your body screaming suddenly to need nourishment..
Enjoy
