Sleep ineffective when hubby is in the bed :-(

[Fitnbrag]

So I had kind of suspected this ever since I got married (5 years ago) but the Fitbit charge confirms it - I don't sleep well when I'm not alone in the bed. When hubby is in the bed with me, I am restless over 20 times and only get about 4 hours of sleep in the 8-9 hours that I am in bed. When hubby is not there, I am "only" restless 10-13 times and get about 6 hours of sleep. Surely I'm not the only one affected like this, right? And he doens't snore, and I'm probably more of a restless sleeper than he is, but it seems that I wake up more and sleep more lightly because he's there, moving around to some extent, kind of "keeping me awake." The past couple of months I have been getting sick a lot and very tired, so I'm thinking of moving to a different room to sleep better (maybe a couple of nights a week) but that makes me so sad!! Is anyone else experiencing something like this?

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[EdsonFitbit]

Welcome to the Fitbit Community @Fitnbrag. It's great to have you here. I've moved your post to Improve Your Zzzs board because it is more related to the topic.

Catch you later. 

[Dominique]

How wide is your bed? Has it got a single mattress or two separate ones? Maybe you can "test-drive" a wider bed in some nice hotel and see if it makes any difference? 

[Lily-Mari]

maybe your bed is too small.

[drudolph314]

Yep, we're both snorers so ... one of us will go to our guest room from time to time.  It's a big help for good sleep.  

[hobie14]

I am a realy bad sleaper also, seperate bedrooms gives a lot better sleep and much happier in the day. So my husband is used to it now. We cuddle first, and then he moves to the other bed. He is happy to do it now because i am much nicer when i had some sleep.

[SunsetRunner]

We have the same problem, and my new Fitbit has confirmed why I am so exhausted.  I don't want to sleep in another room either....