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I have recently achieved my weight loss goal of 60 pounds. Now I have a great fear of gaining it back. Help....I need some advice, strategies, and friends, to guide me on the path of keeping it off forever. Thank you!!!!!!!
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Do you feel better than you did 60 pounds ago?  I have been at my goal for about 3 months now.  It has beeen easier than I thought it might be.  If the scale is up by the 2 pound wiggle room I give myself, I spend the next few days being extra careful.  I have gotten rid of the big clothes and love to find new or even thrift store new ones that celebrate my healthier body.  Celebrate all the non scale victories like being able to walk farther or easier than when you weighed 60 pounds more.   I sometimes picture what it would be like if the weight I have lost was an equal amount in the form of rocks in a backpack I'd have to carry around all day.

 

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Since November 2015 I lost 60 pounds. Now I have a fear of gaining it back. Any words of wisdom or encouragement would be appreciated.
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Do you feel better than you did 60 pounds ago?  I have been at my goal for about 3 months now.  It has beeen easier than I thought it might be.  If the scale is up by the 2 pound wiggle room I give myself, I spend the next few days being extra careful.  I have gotten rid of the big clothes and love to find new or even thrift store new ones that celebrate my healthier body.  Celebrate all the non scale victories like being able to walk farther or easier than when you weighed 60 pounds more.   I sometimes picture what it would be like if the weight I have lost was an equal amount in the form of rocks in a backpack I'd have to carry around all day.

 

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Wow some great advice...thank you so much! I particularly like the rocks, that is something that I think is powerful. I will definitely try and use these suggestions.
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Stay active, count calories

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Thank you good advice. Sometimes it's easy to lose track of the basics.

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Congratulations Win2017. I can't speak from experience because I haven't reached my ideal weight yet but as a change counselor I know that you replace the undesireable behavior with the desireable behavior. The more you incorporate the desireable behavior into your lifestyle the less you engage in the undesireable. I would think that over the course of losing 60# you have learned and incorporated some great habits. Keep telling yourself that  your good habits are your lifestyle now and soon you will know and walk it out without thinking.

I quit drinking soda pop a few years ago and everytime we were at a restaurant I had to remind myself that I don't drink pop. It took awhile for my brain to catch on but now I don't have to tell myself what I do so I know I am a water drinker. The only thing I drink is water or tea.  That is so a part of my lifestyle now that I don't even think about soda pop. Now I am trying to do the same thing with fast food. I tell myself, "I don't eat fast food, I plan my meals." Now I am starting to realize that I plan ahead everything that is going to go in my mouth everyday before I eat. That is how I avoided the free pizza at work today. It wasn't on my plan so I stuck to my plan. 

Have a plan and stick to do. You can do. Enjoy your new weight and the active lifestyle that comes with it. Like another post said, I am sure you are enjoying the look and feel of  your new wardrobe, too. 

Soon to be there... my fitbit goal date is April 16, 2017!! So I am planning to sift through my wardrobe on that date and reward my progress with a new outfit!! 

Again Congratulations that is an amazing accomplishment!! --Kim 

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Thank you Kim on the great pointers. I too drink a lot but I haven't thought of taking the long way back to my desk. I am trying too be be more active as well. Maybe I could walk instead of taking those extra bites or snacks to keep the weight off. Congratulations on giving up Soda! I drink an enormous amount of Diet Coke and have struggled with cutting back on the amount. I love the taste and caffeine. I know it's not good for me but it has been hard giving it up or just cutting back. So great job!

Let us know in April when you hit your weight loss goal. Thanks again for the good advice.

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I am on maintenance week 16 after losing roughly 100 lbs (as much as 105 but I am aiming for a range now.).  I have found simply this.  I am doing the same things I did to lose the weight, just being less calorie restrictive now that I am at my goal.  I am eating the same types of foods and keeping activity the same, I am just eating a bit more.  I am still highly restrictive with sugar and junk, I just eat good, full meals that are good for me.  

If you have lost 60, you know how you got here.  You know you feel 1000% better than you did when you started and you want to stay this way.  I have shared your fear but I am gaining confidence daily.  We all know so many people who have lost weight and piled it back on but they all DIETED.  If we change our lifestyle - eat healthy, eat for fuel and exercise, we can continue to enjoy our new bodies for the rest of our lives.
I am on the weekly weigh in thread as well.  I find tracking my weight openly helps me stay accountable.  I do not want to have to post shamefully so I am still diligent day after day.
Good luck, you've got this!

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Everyone who loses weight is scared of gaining again. Many people who achieved weight loss goal are still struggling everyday to maintain and is documenting everything from being active and counting calories and eating healthy like they're still on a journey. So does this mean if you're once very fat it is impossible to live like a normal person who can just enjoy life and not have to worry about weight/health issue? Normal people doesn't count calories, think before they eat, trying to get that few extra thousand steps. So can we not live like this? Can we just live and not have to worry about health/weight once we hit a healthy bmi and still be normal bmi?

 

All I can say is that life isn't fair. My answer is that if you're once very fat and have some kind of eating disorder you'll have to watch what you eat for the rest of your life and do some sort of exercise weekly. While some other people can not care about their health and still stay normal bmi. 

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Congratulations on losing a 100 pounds that is fantastic. It is great to get support, advice, and encouragement like this. I will definitely join the weekly weigh in.

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@AndyDandyPandy wrote:

Everyone who loses weight is scared of gaining again. Many people who achieved weight loss goal are still struggling everyday to maintain and is documenting everything from being active and counting calories and eating healthy like they're still on a journey. So does this mean if you're once very fat it is impossible to live like a normal person who can just enjoy life and not have to worry about weight/health issue? Normal people doesn't count calories, think before they eat, trying to get that few extra thousand steps. So can we not live like this? Can we just live and not have to worry about health/weight once we hit a healthy bmi and still be normal bmi?

 

All I can say is that life isn't fair. My answer is that if you're once very fat and have some kind of eating disorder you'll have to watch what you eat for the rest of your life and do some sort of exercise weekly. While some other people can not care about their health and still stay normal bmi. 


I would say it is very abnormal for an individual to A) not exercise at all, B) be able to eat whatever/whenever in any quantity desired, and C) maintain a healthy weight (forget BMI, it's a bunch of crap).

 

If a formerly obese individual reaches a healthy weight they would like to maintain, then he or she will need to A) maintain a normal healthy activity level in their lifestyle, B) restrict what they eat, or C) some of each.

 

In my case, I chose option "B", I refuse to watch what I eat (from a quantity perspective; I keep the quality pretty high), and instead, prefer to run a few extra miles per day.

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