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Intimidated by large weight losses

My fitbit friends and MFP friends on Facebook often post huge weight losses in very short periods of time. Like, 100 pounds since February or 90 pounds since March. They show before and after pictures and that's all well and fine. But for people like me who really struggle to lose 1-2 pounds a week and sometimes less, I feel like I am not doing something correctly. I guess it would help if they in fact had weight loss surgery of any kind, that they would mention it. I realize they have to work hard at their food intake and exercise regularly but there still is an advantage over the people that haven't had the surgery. Bravo to them! But, like I said, I feel like I'm not trying hard enough, when I really am.
Rubygirl
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I imagine it could be frustrating.  But remember.....slow and steady wins the race.  Sounds like alot of dieting and not healthy choices which means, as quickly as it came off, it could quickly be put back on.

But you've heard all this before.   Everyone is different.  Different body fat, BMI, heights, water, weight, etc.  My gym partner and I will take the same class in gym.....she will burn close to 400 calories, I will burn two and change.  Different bodies, sizes, weight, body fat etc.

This journey is yours.....no one else's.  Just concentrate on your road to success and keep up the good work.  Welcome to the forum!

 

Sincerely,

Relaxing on a Sunday evening.

Burdie
FitHR Charge....Weight Watchers....Meltdown Challenge....Samsung......Windows 8....Educator.....Lucille Roberts
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It can be frustrating to see people you knowing losing when you aren't, I know how you feel.  Remember though, this is YOUR journey, so keep it all about you.

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Just remember - they'll likely be back attempting this next year again, or still.

 

You could be done, or continuing on way.

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"Think about ways to "just do it."  By that, I mean, don't sit on the couch watching TV...Pace around and do some light pushups/situps/sidel leg lifts/etc during commercials."

 

My role is pretty niche so I frequently have a couple weeks between roles.

Thats exactly what I do.

Advert break, 15 situps, next advert, 15 squats, and so on.

 

What did you do today?

600 sit ups and 6 episodes of startrek

 

Better than "watched some telly"

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208lbs 01/01/18 - 197.8lbs 24/01/18 - 140lbs 31/12/18
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Thank goodness I don't have any serious weight management issues to overcome. That has got to be difficult. But I keep hearing it CAN be done. One way isn't to aim for 100 or even 50 right from the start. You might keep your ultimate goal in mind. But try for more realistic amounts, like just  pound a week at first. Not only is that more achievable, it's more likely to STAY off than fast losses.

 

Without wanting to sound like an ad or something, Fitbit's Aria is a great tool. Yes, it can weigh to the 10th of a pound. But it also measures BMI and percentage of body fat. Perhaps your dietician may suggest setting a body fat goal instead of weight. Aria can assist with that, right out of the box -- almost. Initial losses are easier due to mostly water loss. But once that stabilizes, you got your work cut out for you. Water weighs a lot. But don't skimp what you need for water intake for short term losses or you'll win the battle but lose the war. And don't get discouraged if you have setbacks.

 

Also, set goals that are appropriate for YOU, not what some movie starlett achieved or even another friend. Talk to your doctor as well as network in the Fitbit Community. There's magic in numbers of friends that will encourage you. Most women like the camaraderie of others for motivation. Others would rather not feel pressured by everyone else. Find what works for you. Then make a change once in a while.

 

And remember NO food is forbidden. But watch food intake as well. If monitoring food can help, Fitbit has that as well. It might be a good idea to try that at least some. If nothing else it should help you become aware of portions. Everyone underestimates portions they consume and overestimates calories burned. Whatever you see is fine. Consider that a starting point from which to improve. Don't fret if your numbers for those are "worse" than others. It is what it is. Use real data to your advantage to achieve realistic goals.

 

- Ron

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remember it is tv not real life.Im a former Marine 50 lbs up and I said enouph!It might take a while but inch by inch we will get there! Semper Fi Girl

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