02-06-2018 05:42
02-06-2018 05:42
For all my Chats, Challenges & Laughs peeps! Since we can't get on the threads I thought I would start a discussion area for us. We may not be able to keep track of points standings easily but we can still talk.
I miss you!
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12-10-2020 18:55
12-10-2020 18:55
It is such a struggle to give people a vote on here. But I enjoyed and laughed about the food vacuum idea. Funny Margaret. Loved it.
12-12-2020 07:30 - edited 12-12-2020 07:32
12-12-2020 07:30 - edited 12-12-2020 07:32
And, still haven't call AT&T. Ugh. I may just wait until Monday...
We had a short, but nice visit with daughter. It's not the same with Covid, but it's better than nothing.
Some of Hubby's items sold at the coffee shop so I brought more in yesterday and now I see he brought down more. Wish they had a bigger table for us to use or that H would build some type of board so we could hang stuff too and make it more visible.
Not sure if I'll put up winter decorations or not. I did grab a handful of stuff to put out for yesterday's visit. I'm thinking I don't want to do it because I probably don't need 80% of it with this small house and I don't want to deal with deciding what to keep. I'm not crazy about giving up "treasures".
Fasting 20 hours a day and still struggling with eating too much of the not so good for you stuff. But, my mind is thinking of healthier foods so I'm taking that as progress. One negative with having stuff at the coffee shop...we are buying treats; love their frosted sugar cookies.
12-12-2020 09:48
12-12-2020 09:48
Hello everyone,
So I've been busy applying for jobs in a bunch of different fields. I feel like I have an opportunity to change my life but after 3 pretty aggressive days of on-line apps, resume uploads and custom cover letters, I'm not feeling as confident as I was. Next week I'm going to hit up some local retailers just to ensure a little cash flow. I've got about 6 total weeks worth due - hopefully coming next Friday - but I'll need to be really careful and can't afford any emergencies. If I get something in less than 6 weeks I can double dip but otherwise, I need to get super frugal.
To that end, I went to the grocery and spent a fortune - over $100 - but what I got was lots of salad fixins plus also lots of stuff to go with my existing stuff so I can make meals that use up what I've already spent $ on. Since I've been traveling so much, I haven't really had the opportunity to cook much or empty out the freezer/fridge. For example, I froze the leftover turkey and bones from Thanksgiving. I got noodles, veggies, etc. so I can cook that down into soup and then I'll have soup for the whole winter.
Because I injured my ankle last week, I'm super low on steps but I did do an ab workout followed by a 20 minute stretch workout yesterday. I'm going to try to rebalance everything for next week. I am getting lots of sleep - somehow I expected that after 5 days and nights, I'd start to feel more energized and let go of the wee hours sleeplessness. I am having some weird and different dreams which is a welcome relief since I'd been having recurring bad dreams bordering on nightmares. New and weird is a definite improvement! I think mentally/emotionally, I'm still working through some stuff. I also wonder whether my waking up in the night is a sign of menopause. I'm alert for that because I also have been getting warm at night while I sleep if I've had some alcohol earlier in the evening. Sadly, my company cut my health benefits Monday and haven't sent the COBRA paperwork yet so I had to cancel my annual exam for next week so I won't have lab work to show any hormone declines.
What I'm excited about is hopefully some time to read. I still have 2 book clubs active right now but I'd been falling behind. I've got 2 books for the month and 2 books for next month already checked out of the library and I'm excited to lose myself in fiction and self improvement threads.
12-12-2020 10:10
12-12-2020 10:10
USW - 218.0
LW - 192.4
CW - 190.0
So glad to see everyone being so active and pro-active in their lives and on the posts! I didn't realize how much time had gone by since I last posted. I've been using up my allowed paid time off at work and have only been working 3 days a week for the past 3 weeks so have been working non-stop when I am there playing catch-up on what I missed. When I've been home I've been slugging around the house, sleeping late and in the evenings and on weekends we have been going shopping. This is the first year in quite a while that hubby is up for extended outings so I am taking advantage of it. We have been to the mall several times and grocery shopping and then smaller stores. Total blast! It's like we've stepped back in time to when we were dating.
Anyway, my weight did go up a bit but I want to be at 189 or lower by my birthday (the big 60) so now I'm trying to keep that in mind every time I need to eat.
Hope everyone has a wonderful week!
12-12-2020 18:53
12-12-2020 18:53
Hey, @Katrin , I'm guessing states must be different in regards to insurance. In MN, health coverage goes through to the end of the month. Yes, you may be terminated on the 7th, but your insurance should not be terminated until the 30 or 31st. On the employer's side, it was if it was prior to the 15th we had to pay the premium but if it was after the 15th we didn't; even if the terminated employee used the insurance after the 15th. As I said, maybe it's state by state, but it's a shame you needed to cancel your appointment. I'm hoping something that fits the bill for you comes along to put you in a career job you can be excited about.
@Cele21 , I'm not sure when your 60th is, but I know you can get to 189 with the way you've been consistently losing weight. Happy to hear your husband is doing so well. Please stay safe and healthy with your wanderings.
12-12-2020 19:51
12-12-2020 19:51
Sorry that I’ve been AWOL again. I‘be written several posts in my head but never actually logged in and typed them.
@Katrin , your posts sound much happier than they have in quite some time. I agree with CJ about the insurance. It doesn’t seem right for your employer to be able to cancel your insurance before COBRA kicks in.
@CJ_Here it doesn’t sound like you’re in the right frame of mind to be sorting through all your Christmas stuff. My suggestion would be to choose one or two decorations that make you happy.
@Cele21 , you’re making great progress on your weight loss. It’s great that you and Hubby are “dating” again and that his health is good now.
I finished making my Christmas cards today and just have to sign and mail them.
12-13-2020 16:52
12-13-2020 16:52
Ate pretty good in window yesterday compared to today. Ended up eating too many cookies just because. On the positive side, I seem to be eating better food quantities (except on the snacks).
Thanks for your input, @ElaineJ27 . I did bring up a Joseph, Mary and Baby Jesus statue and am playing everything by ear. A pretty snow today.
Hope everyone had a restful Sunday.
12-13-2020 17:14
12-13-2020 17:14
I did have a restful Sunday. And my Christmas cards are ready for the mailbox!
DD2 dropped by this afternoon and we talked with DD1, and it was decided that we will celebrate Christmas next weekend. We were already having a baking evening on Friday while we watch a Trans-Siberian Orchestra concert so that will be done. I only have a bit of shopping and sewing to have all gifts ready so that will be a priority. Now to plan a holiday dinner!
I have my exercise scheduled into my week but am still having inner battles to actually DO it.
12-13-2020 18:34
12-13-2020 18:34
I had so much trouble being able to reply here, and now I've forgotten what I did that got it to work. Heck. Elaine suggested CJ not be sorting through Xmas decorations.....I took a whole car load of Xmas decorations to Goodwill about a month ago. Now, outdoors I just have 3 upside down "tomato cages" which are the shape of Christmas trees when turned that way, with lights on them. and inside instead of a giant tree I just have a collapsable sparkling rose red tree you just lift up and hang on a pole. with electric lights to match the foil of the tree. It seems refreshing to take a new easier approach finally. Merry Christmas folks.
12-14-2020 12:15
12-14-2020 12:15
I did have a “discussion “with myself this morning about my workout but the voice that reminded me that I’ll feel better afterwards won. It’s no wonder that I have headaches with all the voices arguing in my head!
So I did a 30-minute speed interval on the treadmill, then my nautilus routine, which I hadn’t done in about ten days. I do feel more energetic but it was difficult.
I just got back from grocery shopping at Walmart (our choices are limited) and have 20 minutes to rest before I pick up grandkids from school. I don’t know how I kept up when I worked, but I was younger.
12-16-2020 17:49
12-16-2020 17:49
Since Monday’s workout, I haven’t even had a discussion or much thought about exercise again. I finished shopping on Tuesday and wrapped almost all the gifts.
I bought glazed pecans and have totally pigged out on those. Telling myself that I’ll only have a few hasn’t worked as they are quite addictive.
I hope the rest of you are having more success limiting your sweets and overindulgences!
12-16-2020 20:02 - edited 12-16-2020 20:04
12-16-2020 20:02 - edited 12-16-2020 20:04
Your tree sounds pretty, @Glenda . I hope you have a healthy, peaceful Christmas.
Those darn glazed pecans, @ElaineJ27 ! I went through a couple of packages of them. Luckily I did use some to make the stems of dinner rolls cut to look like pumpkins for Thanksgiving.
I missed one 20 hr fast by an hour. Some days are tougher than others. Yesterday I ate OK; today, too much. I'm getting in my water. My sister is stopping by Friday just for a minute (outside) to exchange Christmas presents. So, tomorrow will be the day to make a wreath if I'm going to. We haven't walked this week and have only delivered one load of firewood so the fresh air tomorrow would (WILL) be a good thing.
Enjoy your special Christmas / Holiday get togethers however small they may be. Each day is a gift; an opportunity to share love.
12-17-2020 06:56
12-17-2020 06:56
My sinuses are giving me trouble this morning so I’m having leftover chicken and noodles for breakfast. Along with a cup of cinnamon tea, that should clear my head.
Today I’m baking gingerbread men and finishing sewing projects. I already told DD2 that her gift will be in pieces because the dimensions will change with her home purchase in January. I need to go to the post office and bank, so I’ll do that just before lunch because a small drive-thru grill is giving a portion of today’s transactions to the soup kitchen. All of these are downtown so that will be a (hopefully) quick trip.
I hope all of you are embracing a slower holiday season and enjoying the present instead of mourning what can’t be. Jan, I know this year must be especially sad for your family and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
12-17-2020 08:42
12-17-2020 08:42
I'm intrigued with DD2's gift. I'm guessing it's a quilt but not sure why it has to be in pieces because it would need to change due to her home purchase? Would you do the binding in a different color based on the bedroom color? Or, am I way off base???
12-17-2020 09:00
12-17-2020 09:00
@CJ_Here , it’s a quilted table runner. Hubby commented that she will have a round table in her new house so I need to know if she wants a round cover or a rectangle runner. The blocks are done in Christmas fabric.
I don’t know if I related DD2’s situation but she is not married. She lives with her two kids (7 and 😎 and their dad although he decided he no longer wanted to be a couple while she was pregnant with #2 and he was deployed. She has now paid down her student loans enough that she can buy a house for herself and the kids. But they’re not telling the kids until after Christmas.
I just finished baking the gingerbread men and only ate the oval I made with the last dough scraps. These guys are sturdy so there aren’t any broken cookies to eat!
12-17-2020 10:06
12-17-2020 10:06
Hi Everyone, Virginia has no such insurance protections - this is actually the 3rd time I've had an employer pull this stunt. I can pay out of pocket and get reimbursed once I have COBRA but the employer has 60 days to get me the paperwork! I'm hoping I can safe and healthy and maybe save on some of the premiums since the month will already have passed before I need to pay.
Meanwhile, I went into my local Lane Bryant the other day and applied for part time "stylist" as they call them and was accepted pretty much on the spot. I start tomorrow and have already completed all of my onboarding "paper work" which is in quotes because it's all on-line! Including direct deposit! The pay isn't too great but they offered me the very top of the scale with regional manager approval so at least there's that. The danger is that I can't outspend my paycheck as the goal was to take home money. However, the discount is a whopping 50% of regular and 20% off clearance!
In other news, I had a really exciting phone screen via HR with a company that I'm now super pumped for! My in person interview is tomorrow and I really, really want THIS job. Please send prayers and positive vibes tomorrow! This could be a really great thing! The company provides total relocation services targeted at seniors moving into senior housing - downsizing into active adult (55+), transitioning to assisted living or memory care. They do also work with anyone relocating (like doing the tiny house thing), etc. but the target demographic is seniors. Partnerships and referrals would come from the communities themselves although the clients would be the families directly 1 on 1. The company provides downsizing, packing, storing, donating, distributing to family/friends, relocating, set-up, unpacking and even decorating - right down to setting the remote on the bedside table. They help map out the new floor plan and decide how much can fit and where it should go so it becomes a turnkey experience for the family. Of course it's not free and not every person is going to want to pay for this convenience but having just gone through the trauma of this with my parents only a year ago (and my mom had to buy new flatware because she doesn't know what happened to the previous stuff AND her pictures are still not hung on the walls) I really see a value in this service and wish I'd known about it last summer! I feel like this is a job I can do, do well and feel good about helping people in these challenging times. My experience as an event manager doing weddings, bar/bat mitzvahs and even funerals will really come in handy as family dynamics will be a big part of this.
I do have other applications out there and have had 2 other interviews so far but it's been a long time since I've felt this excited about an opportunity. Best of all, it would be very local as my own neighborhood is untapped and there are 3 luxury senior communities (golf course types) and 3 assisted living communities right within my zip code!
In other news, my back has been troubling me. I don't know whether it's an injury as a result either of my stunning grace that injured my ankle a week and a half ago or whether it's due to favoring that foot as I limp around. I suspect it's actually due to the lack of physical activity since the injury since I've been trying to stay off of it. I'm going to try to work my way through a 20 minute stretching video today since doing some stretching yesterday really helped it.
You guys and your baking and gifting and decorating are actually getting me somewhat in the Christmas spirit. After 16 years of event planning, I usually associate the Christmas season with non-stop work, aching feet, loss of sleep, dry skin and really terrible eating followed by regret. Even after leaving the industry I'm more of a grinch and just want to sleep. Most years I don't even put up a tree! This year, however, I have plenty of time and although I'm a little afraid of NOT getting this job I want and resuming my active job hunt (submitted about 40 total applications thus far in the past 2 weeks) I feel like I am going to take the time this afternoon to put up my fake tree, decorate it and hopefully share some festive feelings with my boyfriend, friends and especially when my parents come over on Christmas itself. So, thank you for being there for me and for sharing your updates along the way! It's really been a positive influence!
@ElaineJ27and @CJ_Here you are right on the money with those glazed nuts! I use them as a salad topper and have a rule in my house that they cannot be eaten without being accompanied by lettuce or they'd never make it to the salad! My mom used to make them homemade when I was a kid and I have her recipe but it's so easy to buy the premade ones at the store!
12-19-2020 16:14
12-19-2020 16:14
Hope you put up your tree, @Katrin . I ended up not putting up ours but am OK with that. The company you're hoping to work for sounds like it is right up your alley. There's a definite need for this service. Praying it's yours.
I have a round table and made a rectangular table runner last winter which works just great, but could see the round covering would be nice for a growing family. Does your daughter have a home in mind or will there be plenty of time for the kids to wrap their heads around this huge change for them. Maybe their living arrangements are separate already so it won't be too bad.?.
A full day with hauling firewood, making soup, cleaning up the kitchen and then helping hubby with the water line break in the outside well / pump house. Luckily we were home and he caught it. There was about six inches of water to deal with (pump up out of the little 8 foot deep basement the water pump and holding tank sits in). He was worried about freezing having never dealt with this before. The pipe that froze was for an outside faucet and not the main pipe to the house so it was a wake up call of what could have been horrible.
12-21-2020 08:22
12-21-2020 08:22
@Cele21 , Happy birthday!!!!
I’m recovering from our family celebration over the weekend. I baked and cleaned Thursday and Friday. We did not bake cookies Friday night because we were all worn out. We watched the TSO concert, and by the end, DD1 and her family had arrived and the kids had a gingerbread house contest.
I was in the kitchen all morning Saturday with my mother-in-law and grandkids baking and icing cookies. Then I made a taco bake and Mac and cheese, and let my daughters take over the rest. Later when DD2 was reheating leftovers for the kids, she put a “sparkly” paper plate in the microwave and started a fire! This is the daughter that has two Bachelors of Science degrees! I’m not going to the gym today because I spent another hour scrubbing my microwave.
DD2 has signed a contract to buy a house in Jacksonville. The building inspection is tomorrow so she asked to go do another walk through with her and we will measure the table.
I have to pat myself on the back and say that my sugar cookies are pretty darned good but since I didn’t make as many, I can’t go wild. I fixed containers for both our dads and have the rest set aside for Christmas Day. But I certainly still have a lot of junk food in the house.
12-21-2020 08:33
12-21-2020 08:33
Slow Sunday. Snow to take care of today, but Hubby says he doesn't need my help. Hmmm. He wants help on building a wood splitter stand so maybe he thinks he can only get so much work out of me. I have been irritable around him...due to my irritation with him. I feel so bad since my sister's husband is so sick with advanced COPD that every morning she doesn't know if he'll be alive. And, every day is such a struggle for him and now he's not eating...and he's dealing with cancer treatments besides. So, for me to be so irritated with mine is shameful. I think it's his constant commentary of what he's watching; what he's thinking, etc etc etc. I have one comfortable chair to sit in to read, be on the computer, etc and with this small space I just don't have my own thoughts; time. Same old complaint. How did I ever think we could living in a van or tiny house? We have 600 sq ft more than that would have been. I just ignore him but that's not really fair to him since he wants my companionship which is what living together means I guess. So, just rambling here because I can type while he talks, LOL
Hope each of you are feeling comforted during these special days.
12-21-2020 10:49
12-21-2020 10:49
@Cele21 Happy Birthday! So glad to hear that you are continuing to shed the pounds. And even more so that hubby is doing well enough to get out more often.
For the last two weeks, I've been in catch up mode from the last time (Thanksgiving) I took a week off from work AND in get ready for the next time I have a week off from work (this week) mode so as much as I had intended to post (and like @ElaineJ27 "wrote" some in my head) I never managed to get here, not even to read your posts, until this morning. I'm going to have to plan my time off better next year so that I'm not taking a week off each month the last three months of the year.
I'm still not back in "one-derland". I don't remember what my weight was the last time I posted (I'll go back and look before my next weigh in), but think I missed posting two weigh ins (at least I've been sticking to that). The week before last I had managed to loose a surprising amount considering what I was eating and the lack of activity. At that point, I think I was still tracking , at least a little bit, though. I know that always helps me. Last week I gained 0.2 of that back. I was surprised it wasn't more, since I had completely stopped tracking.
I usually manage to drag out decorating the Christmas tree for days and days. This year I think it was less than 24 hours from the time hubby cut it down at the tree farm until it was completely decorated. Of course I was procrastinating getting my cards written... @CJ_Here I can relate to the difficulty in giving up treasures. As I was going through all my ornaments, I discovered that I had taken many of my mom's ornaments, just because they were hers. There were some, that I don't remember ever seeing before. I'll be donating those and only keeping the ones that hold special memories.
@Katrin since I stopped posting right before you "came back' to let us know you had resigned in the airport, I haven't yet had a chance to comment on how relieved you must have been to be out of that situation. So glad to hear that you found a part time job to help hold you over should it take more than 6 weeks to move into your next career position. Given both your professional background and your recent personal experience with your parents, it sounds like you are a perfect fit for the company you described. How did your interview go?
In lieu of the annual holiday party, the Women's Service Club I belong to at work had a gingerbread house decorating contest so my 17 YO and I spent way more time than I expected to doing that last weekend. It's been a long time since I decorated one, but I thought it would be a fun way to spend some time together. I think the last time I decorated one was before I was married. I had the crazy notion that we should do the whole thing from scratch. That was the first and only time I ever baked ginger bread. With some extras for the decorations, the pre-made kit is a much better way to go. Hubby even got in on the act - he was the photographer. He claims it what his photo skills that won us second place... As soon as I figure out how to reduce the file size, I'll post a picture here.
Since the sun is shining and I'm not chained to my desk, I'm going to go for the first walk I've taken in I can't remember how long.